7 Non-Sexual Things That Make Men Sexy AF to Women

Let’s be honest, what entails ‘sexiness’ in a man isn’t just good looks and charm … there’s a whole heap of other stuff that drives women crazy.

Gentleman, if you’re serious about meeting the woman of your dreams, or at least sleeping with the woman of your dreams, then read on and take note.

#1 Women Love Presence

Not presents, presence. A man in his healthy masculine is able to be present, listen deeply, witness without judgement, hold eye contact and truly see us in all that we are. This means you need to ditch your phones and any other distractions and literally just ‘be’ with us. Women LOVE men who are truly present and able to hold space for our feminine to unfold.

#2 Women Love Men Who Are On Purpose

There’s nothing worse than a man who is fumbling through life with uncertainty. Men, it’s time to get focussed and live your personal truth. We don’t necessarily need the stereotypical hot lawyer, or sexy artist … we just want a man who is certain and loves how he is choosing to live his life.

#3 Women Love Men With Integrity

Integrity = Doing what you say you are going to do, when you said you would do it. Also known as, sticking to your word. Don’t tell us you’ll text or call if you’re not actually going to go through with it. Wise women don’t put up with that nonsense. And for the record, integrity isn’t just about sticking to your word with commitments to others, it’s about sticking to your word with what you commit to yourself.

#4 Women Love Men With Open Hearts

Stop trying to be the cool tough guy … soften a little. Women love men who soften, especially men who are comfortable being open and honest about how they feel and what they want. It takes a strong man to open his heart and be vulnerable with a woman.

#5 Women Love Men Who Look After Themselves

There’s nothing less sexy than a man who lives like a slob and spends half his life drinking and complaining about being hungover. Yuck. Us women want men who take good care of themselves, who eat healthy, who get outside and exercise, who live in clean houses, who take pride in their appearance and who are happy with the simple things in life.

#6 Women Love Men Who Are Honest & Open With Communication

Imagine how much easier it would be if we all communicated openly about what we do and don’t want with each other. Women love men who are open and honest and don’t play games. Not feeling it? Be honest. Only up for something casual? Be honest. Really, really like your woman (perhaps even love)? Be honest.

#7 Women Love Men Who Are Open To Working On Their Shit

We all have ‘baggage’ … stuff to deal with that holds us back from being the best version of ourselves … stuff that prevents us from having amazing relationships and sex. Women love men who are happy to dive deep and face and deal with the shit that is holding them back in life.