A Guide to the Sacred Art of Pussy Worship

The sacred art of pussy worship, is it even a thing? Yes, yes it is. And if you’re new to the idea of pussy worship then sit tight, because you’re about to learn a thing or two about what it really means to truly love a woman in her entirety.

Pussy, Yoni, Vagina, Vulva, Cunt, Kitty, Flower … to be honest it really doesn’t matter what we call it, what matters is that we ALL honour and worship every woman’s pussy like a fucking temple. A temple that demands deep reverence, love and full respect.

The gift of the sacred art of pussy worship is that the woman who is receiving can do just that; surrender to the man (or woman) who is worshipping them and receive the gift of presence and pleasure that unfolds.

And for the worshipper, it is a complete honour to worship the pussy that you have chosen, and not surprisingly the practice is often extremely erotic and transformational for both the worshipper, and the worshipped.

Ready to begin? Here’s ten simple ways you can begin your own pussy worshipping practice today:

#1 Full presence

How often does a woman have the full presence of a lover worshipping their pussy? In everyday life, not very often. Presence is highly important and absolutely essential when worshipping pussy.

Begin by simply sitting or kneeling in front of your woman in complete silence. Connect with her eyes. Take a few deep breaths together. Notice the sound of her breath, the way she moves in her body … take time to feel into the energy of her entire being - her heart, her consciousness, her beautiful tummy, her pussy. This may be a new experience for you both, keep in mind that it’s okay to feel nervous, anxious, aroused, excited … all at once.

Remember to remain in this space of full presence throughout the entire worshipping ritual. Stay connected with her eyes. Also remember to stay wholeheartedly present and connected with yourself.

#2 Worship her heart

A woman’s positive pole in her body is her heart … worship a woman’s heart and her pussy will naturally open like a delicate flower … slowly, gradually and with grace. This part of pussy worship is essential and not to be missed! You may wish to begin by simply placing your hand on her heart space (the space between her breasts), consciously sending love through your hand into her heart - honour her heart with deep reverence and presence. Worship that beautiful heart of hers that so deeply loves and expresses in it’s own unique and beautiful way.

#3 Use your words

Have you told her what you truly love and adore about her? Just like men, women often have hang ups around the appearance of their body, not to mention the appearance, scent and taste of their pussy. Hearing you talk about her with reverence and respect will be a hugely healing moment for her.

Here’s some examples:

“I love how soft your skin is”

“I love and honour your beautiful heart”

“I love how smooth your pussy is to touch”

“I love the colour of your pussy”

“I love it when your pussy opens and is wet like that”

“Your pussy is like a beautiful little flower”

“I worship your pussy”

“Your pussy is hot”

“I love how your pussy tastes”

… you get the idea!

Remember to be really authentic with your words. Don’t say stuff you don’t mean … find things that you truly appreciate and love about her and her pussy and express them with authenticity and presence.

#4 Take your time

The biggest mistake you can make is to rush this beautiful ritual. TAKE YOUR TIME. Begin by simply witnessing her body without touch. Then, if you feel to, slowly touch and massage her entire body, spending a lot of time on her breasts and heart space. Remember, you are serving her, this is not you taking, this is you 100% giving. Bring awareness and loving presence to your touch; experiment with using the five elements in how you touch her body - air, water, fire, earth and ether (more on that in my eBook Ecstatic Sex & Deep Intimacy). When you feel she is ready (and trust me, she will give you signs with her body and sounds), gently begin moving towards her pussy, making her yearn for your touch and your gaze.

#5 Gaze at her pussy

Yep, you heard right. Pussy gazing, it’s a thing. Just like eye gazing, but instead you are simply witnessing her pussy. There’s no need to do a thing, simply gaze at her pussy and worship her pussy with your eyes. This simple and beautiful ritual can be deeply healing for both the woman AND the pussy worshipper. Remember, take your time.

#6 Massage her pussy

Pussy massage is very similar to any other type of massage, only it focusses on her pussy. Firstly though you begin massaging her entire body, and then work your way to her pussy. Take your time and massage her thighs, her inner labia, her outer labia, her clitoris … take your time and remember not to make the massage about the end goal of orgasm … it’s definitely NOT about reaching orgasm (however if that happens, that’s definitely okay too!). If she is ready (and she will let you know with her body language and words) then you can massage her gently inside her pussy, too. Remember to communicate and respect her requests. This massage is ALL about her and about worshipping her in her entirety.

#7 Embrace her scent and taste

Every woman tastes and smells different at different times of the day/week/month/year. Embrace her unique scent and taste and make sure you tell her how much you love it!

#8 Eye contact

Eye contact is the gateway to the soul! When you are touching, massaging (and possibly kissing, licking and sucking, if she is your lover and gives you consent) her pussy, take time to look her in the eyes. Your eyes will tell her everything. Maintain eye contact … own it in your eyes, own the fact you love all of her - her pussy on your hands (and possibly on your tongue) - she will feel your sincerity simply by witnessing it in your eyes.

Note: for some women it may be very confronting to be worshipped with such reverence and respect and many women may not feel comfortable within themselves to be able to hold eye contact. This is perfectly normal and okay and not to be taken personally. Simple hold presence for wherever she is at and know that your simple love and presence may be exactly what she needs to heal. If she cries, that’s perfectly normal. If she yells, that’s okay too. Simply BE with whatever comes up for her in these precious moments of worship.

#9 Own it with your heart and sex centre

This pussy worshipping practice can be a big turn on as the giver. Own that. It’s okay to feel turned on, but simply notice the sexual energy moving in your sex centre (located at your genitals) and circulate it up to your heart with your breath and your awareness. Own that your own heart is exploding with love for this woman. Tell her. Tell her with your words, and with your eyes, and with the authentic expression of sound and movement. Own your turn on, own your desire, own that you love worshipping ALL of her!

#10 Communicate

This practice is ALL about HER. It’s all about you serving, and her receiving. So, ask her what she wants more of. Ask her what she loves, what she desires, what feels good. Communication is the key to you both having a wonderful and sacred experience.