No Clit, No Vibes, No Problem!
In the early years of my journey as a sexologist, I was sent a wide variety of sex toys to test and review. While it was fun at first, I quickly realised that relying on these toys was actually limiting my pleasure. I started questioning whether these tools were enhancing my experience or numbing it. That’s when I decided to step away and explore pleasure in a different, more intentional way. And everything changed. I discovered how to experience full-body orgasm.
Here’s how I did it in 3 simple steps:
1. I spent one whole month not touching my clit.
That's right, a full month. Why? Because I was addicted to short, sharp clitoral orgasms that left me feeling disappointed, dissatisfied and flat. My orgasms weren't leaving me feeling energised, and everything was over within seconds. So I stopped relying on my clit for pleasure and went on a 30 day clit cleanse. This gave me the opportunity to explore a whole new world of pleasure in my body and the sensation inside my vagina increased dramatically.
My orgasmic energy had an opportunity to build up slowly ... everything changed.
I'm not saying NOT to have clitoral O's! I'm saying take a 30 day break and see what happens. After my 30 day clit cleanse my clitoral O's were completely different! They went from short and explosive, to full body and expansive!
2. I threw out all my vibrators.
I KNOW!! WTF, right? I literally took them outside and threw them all in the bin. Why? Because I was relying on the highest setting vibrations to reach orgasm. And without a vibe I lost my sensitivity and couldn't feel any pleasure in my body without them. It didn't feel right. I wanted more - more sensitivity, more expansive orgasmic experiences, more connection and more satisfaction. Once I ditched the battery fuelled toys my O's changed dramatically. And that's when I discovered crystal toys. And why The Juliet Pleasure Wand™ is a best seller!
3. I redefined my definition of orgasm.
Orgasm isn't just a short explosive release of energy. Orgasmic energy is always present in our body. Always! Even when we don't feel like it is. The energy begins building from the moment we feel turned on and can last for days. Once I realised that an O isn't just something that happens 'at the end' of sex once I stopped racing to the finish line chasing O's ... everything changed.
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