It's the middle of Winter in Australia, the perfect time of the year to warm up the body with a libido boosting elixir each morning (aka 'the modern day healthy hot chocolate'). Winter is a time where our body naturally craves warm nourishing drinks and food and my secret (or not so secret) cacao elixir does just that. Not only does it taste delicious, but it also helps boost libido and energy levels ... who would say no to that?!
Read MoreShe is a woman, who, through ritual or psychological development, has come to know the spiritual side of her sexuality, her true eroticism, and lives this out according to her individual circumstances. The Sacred Slut resides within us all, both women and men - she’s not ashamed of her sexuality, she embraces it all and owns that part of herself.
Read MoreThe sacred art of cock worship, is it even a thing? Yes, it is! And I’m here to tell you that it doesn’t require a bunch of magical Tantric sex techniques to achieve … in fact, cock worship is a simple and erotic practice that anyone can enjoy if they want it enough.So, what is cock worship? Well it’s a beautiful practice that involves worshipping and lavishing attention on the cock of your choice … naturally cock worship is best enjoyed with a lover of whom you adore.
Read MoreWithin us ALL is the masculine and feminine energy, regardless of whether we have a penis or vagina. The healthy mature masculine is deeply present, holds space, witnesses without judgement, creates safety, is on purpose and has integrity and awareness. The healthy mature feminine flows, surrenders, is playful, vulnerable, compassionate, authentic and intuitive.
Read MoreToday I'm feeling to talk about vulnerability and sharing our truth as individuals. I'm sharing about this because it's something that I'm exploring deeply within myself and it keeps showing up in my life as a challenge. You see, I share a lot of myself on social media and with my friends, but often when it comes to intimate relationships, I've noticed I hold back a little ... it's like I don't want to be 'too much' - too opinionated, too sexual, too business-focussed, too spiritual, too loving, too alternative, too mainstream, too crazy, too horny, too hippy ... fucking hell, it's crazy how we can judge ourselves and keep ourselves small just to please others.
Read MoreNext time somebody in your life triggers you (aka annoys you, pisses you off, makes you feel angry, sad, frustrated ... generally puts your whole body & mind into a feeling of distress), I encourage you to take a few moments to reflect on why you feel so affected by this person? You see, it's easy to instantly react and blame, tame and shame others - to make them 'wrong', to bitch and gossip, or even worse, collude with others behind their back.
Read MoreEducation and ongoing growth is the key to living a life full of amazing sex, intimacy and connection with ourself and with others. Aside from my own book, Ecstatic Sex & Deep Intimacy, I recommend these following books as resources that have changed my life and expanded my own experience sex, orgasm and love.
Read MoreOver the past few months I have supercharged my manifesting skills in life by exploring and creating with sex magic. Sex magic, put simply, is using the power of our sexual and orgasmic energy to manifest exactly what we want in life. Sex magic can be practiced anytime, anywhere. When we allow ourselves to tap into the power of manifesting during self-pleasure, or love-making with a lover/beloved, we are tapping into the power of our life force energy and creating from a space of pure consciousness and love.
Read MoreAs women, when we allow ourselves to be penetrated by another, we open our pussy and womb space (and quite possibly mouth and ass) up to the consciousness of our chosen lover. We take them into us physically and, we take them into us energetically. We absorb their consciousness into our entire being. Often when this happens we open ourselves up to all sorts of emotions and feelings that impact us on a deep level in both positive and negative ways.
Read MoreIt’s no surprise that both the topic of sex and money still hold so much taboo and are surrounded with a whole heap of stigma and shame that gets in the way of us giving ourselves PERMISSION to experience lots of BOTH in our life. My personal belief is that the real ‘TANTRIC WAY’ embraces it ALL - abundant sex AND abundant cash flow. And so, living a ‘Tantric life’ is about breaking through the shame, guilt and unworthiness associated with sex and money, and stepping into a life that creates abundance on all levels! Because let’s face it, abundant money and conscious sex has the potential to bring an abundance of freedom and joy.
Read MoreThe sacred art of pussy worship, is it even a thing? Yes, yes it is. And if you’re new to the idea of pussy worship then sit tight, because you’re about to learn a thing or two about what it really means to truly love a woman in her entirety. Pussy, Yoni, Vagina, Vulva, Cunt, Kitty, Flower … to be honest it really doesn’t matter what we call it, what matters is that we ALL honour and worship every woman’s pussy like a fucking temple. A temple that demands deep reverence, love and full respect. The gift of the sacred art of pussy worship is that the woman who is receiving can do just that; surrender to the man (or woman) who is worshipping them and receive the gift of presence and pleasure that unfolds.
Read MoreHow much of yourself are you sharing with your lover/beloved/partner, and how much are you holding back? To what extent do you shrink parts of yourself to fit in and avoid being ‘too much’ - too emotional, too crazy, too loving, too sexual, too loud, too quiet, too opinionated, too honest, too needy ... etc? I’m asking these questions because all too often we (myself included) push parts of ourselves down in fear of scaring our partner away, or in fear of our partner not being able to embrace and love ALL of us - the good, the bad and the fucking ugly.
Read MoreThe difference between what the masculine and feminine need in a relationship is BIG.
Everything about the feminine is about LOVE. And everything about the masculine is about FREEDOM. If you’re in your feminine, your value is LOVE and you want a partner in their masculine who fills your life with love. If you’re in your masculine, your highest value is FREEDOM, and you want a partner in their feminine who helps you feel FREE.
Read MoreMany, many couples make the mistake of committing to someone because their heart centre says YES, but their sex centre was always NO. Or, their sex centre was YES, so the sex was fucking great, but deep down their heart and intuition always felt off. There’s so many different combinations of the YES’S and NO’S, but I find this process very handy when choosing who we interact with sexually and who we enter into committed relationships with.
Read MoreHere's three necessary pathways that both women AND men need to get comfortable with to enjoy ecstatic sex and an overflow of orgasmic energy.
Read MoreAs we move into the new solstice, now is the perfect time to take a moment for a mid-year review. You have the opportunity, right now, to stop and reflect on what you would like to open yourself up to and manifest in the second half of 2018.
Read MoreThe Juliet Pleasure Wand is designed to connect you to your true sexual essence. This detailed self pleasure guide gives ideas and rituals for those who are ready to deepen their connection to their sexual energy and expand their orgasmic potential.
Read MoreThe Juliet Pleasure Wand is designed to connect you to your true sexual essence. This detailed guide for couples gives ideas and rituals for those who are ready to deepen their connection to each other, to their sexual energy and expand their orgasmic potential.
Read MoreThe Juliet Pleasure Wand is designed to connect you to your true sexual essence. This detailed video gives you guidance on how to choose the right crystal pleasure wand for you and you pleasure potential.
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