Imagine a dating world where you get to skip all the nerves, question marks and anxious uncertainty, and instead clearly communicate exactly what you’re seeking with a new lover from the moment they come into your life. And I mean communicate it prior to meeting, being super clear about what you want, desire and need. Sounds upfront, but it works ... trust me.
Read MoreWhat does sexual empowerment look and feel like? And how can we as women feel more sexually empowered on a daily basis? Well, sexual empowerment begins within; it’s not something we can pay for, and definitely not something that comes easy. A sexually empowered woman is a woman who embraces her sexuality, owns her deep desires and devotes time to working on herself so that she can enjoy a deeply loving relationship firstly with herself, and then with others. Sexual empowerment is a life-long work-in-progress, a way of being that flows, changes and grows with time and life experience.
Read MoreIt’s the silent epidemic that most of will suffer from at some stage in our lives; loss of our mojo (aka sex drive). It’s a killer, especially when we are head over heels in love with our partner, and yet something in our mind and body clicks, and all-of-a-sudden we are literally sexless.
So, how do we keep our mojo alive on a daily basis? Well to be honest I think it’s completely normal and natural not to want sex every day, but I also think it’s not too big an ask to want to at least feel sexual daily (even if we don’t engage in the actual physical sex).
Read MoreFantasy Files is a joint collaboration between Sexologist Juliet Allen and artist Tina Maria Elena. The project combines sexual fantasy, writing and art. Seven fantasies will be revealed over seven days, all written and submitted by real-life women from around the globe. The Fantasy Files project aims to empower women and men to embrace their sexual fantasy and desire and enjoy their sexuality in all it's senses.
"She gasps, closes her eyes, concentrates on the wetness between her fingertips, the way they slide across her clit and the weight of his watching eyes. The stairs creak as he kneels, coming closer, his eyes feasting on her body and the way the light falls across it. He slips a finger under the other strap of her dress and it slips down to her waist. He runs his finger across her collarbone, and down her chest, pausing at a tight taut nipple before moving down her belly and into the folds of her dress. His hand joins hers and he moans when he feels the warm wet mess she’s making."
Read MoreIs it possible to ‘make love’ with someone when you sleep with them for the first time? Or make love to them even when you're not actually 'in love' with them? Yes. Yes. Yes. Often we make the mistake of assuming that 'making love' is something that’s only for people who are 'in love'. But this is far from the truth. When we are both connected at our three centres - our sex centre, our heart centre & our consciousness - sex becomes a beautiful exchange of energy, love and magical union. Sex becomes love in a physical and spiritual form.
Read MoreLadies, it’s time to honour our vagina’s and treat them like the divine and exquisite temple that they are, allowing only amazing energy and love to enter our sacred space. All too often we as a women don’t give our pussy the love that it needs and deserves. When we neglect our pussy it overflows into us not enjoying our sexuality in it’s fullness, and we definitely don’t reap the full benefits and pleasure of sex and love-making with others.
Read MoreMorning sex is quite possibly my favourite type of sex. So I've put together all my favourite Sunday morning sex music in the one spot for you.
Read MoreJuliet speaks live on Sophie Guidolin’s Instagram about all things sex, libido, relationships and more! This was a LIVE Q&A, answering questions from Sophie’s Instagram audience.
Read MoreIs Tantric sex a ‘thing’ for women who have sex with women? How can we have deeper intimacy and ecstatic sex on a regular basis? My sex life with my woman is stale, how can I bring back the excitement? Every week I get questions from women who have sex with women about how they can experience better, more connected sex (on a regular basis). I myself have explored the world of Tantra with a female lover, and so I’m here to impart some secrets I’ve learnt along the way about Tantric lesbian sex.
Read MoreAre you ready to take sex and intimacy to a whole new level? Do you feel like there’s something missing from your existing sex life? Or perhaps you’re craving a deeper and more powerful level of connection with your lover but can’t quite seem to reach it? Enter Tantric Sex. A conscious way of fucking that gives sex a whole new level of deliciousness and meaning.
Read MoreIn my opinion, amazing sex can always feel even more amazing when you're met with an amazing playlist to fuck to. So, here's my top three playlists, ripe and ready for Summer.
Read MoreFantasy Files is a joint collaboration between Sexologist Juliet Allen and artist Tina Maria Elena. The project combines sexual fantasy, writing and art. Seven fantasies will be revealed over seven days, all written and submitted by real-life women from around the globe. The Fantasy Files project aims to empower women and men to embrace their sexual fantasy and desire and enjoy their sexuality in all it's senses.
"A crowded elevator in a busy city office building. My lover stands protectively behind me, his hands discreetly under my skirt, his fingers softly grazing the inside of my thigh. I'm not wearing any panties. The anticipation grows inside of me as he gently touches on the warmth of my pussy and threatens to plunge his fingers deep inside me. I crave it but stand poise and try not let my knees give way beneath his touch and betray us both. I can feel his breathe on my skin, hot with silent desire brushing against the hair on the back of my neck. I close my eyes and let them roll back into my head and try to breathe and stay collected. The elevator stops at each floor and more people cram inside or leave until finally we are alone. I reach and close the doors once more and select the lowest floor."
Read MoreIt’s no lie that I’ve recently done a fair bit of ‘market research’ on Tinder and let’s just say, it’s a hell of a jungle out there. Gentleman, listen up, if you’re serious about Tinder, and you genuinely want to match up with a sex goddess, then I suggest most of you consider a major overhaul of your profiles … immediately.
Read MoreMutual masturbation is when two (or more) people masturbate in each other’s presence. Perhaps you are both positioned on opposite sides of the room, or you’re alongside each other kissing, or you’re on opposite sides of the world, watching and listening via a screen. It doesn’t matter how you choose to do it, what matters is that you experience and embrace mutual masturbation as a regular practice with your lover/s.
Read MoreToday I want to de-bunk a few common myths about Tantra and assure you that Tantra isn’t just for hippies, in fact Tantra is for everyone and is a simple way to take your sex life to a whole new level.
Read MoreBeing a Sexually Empowered Human means fully embracing your sexuality, your sex centre and your desire for life-changing sex. It means fully owning your deep yearning for connection, intimacy and wild fucking. You don’t feel the need to ‘dress’ sexy, because your sexiness isn’t reliant on what you wear, or what clothing size you are … you are sexy from the moment you wake up in your most raw and natural essence and way of being and moving in your body and spirit.
Read MoreAre you a lady in waiting attracting the prince whose looking good and going nowhere? Or are you a Queen ready for a King?
The lady in waiting can have a little bit of power by sleeping with a man and enchanting him with her sexuality. She can also have a little bit of power by meeting a man's desires, expectations and ideas of how his ideal woman should behave.
But she doesn't have legitimate power, because she is giving 80 per cent and he is only giving 20 per cent.
Read MoreKissing isn’t always about smacking your lips together and sharing saliva … no, there is so much more to kissing than that. So, what is it that makes for an exquisite kiss between two lovers? Is it the actual technique? Is it the energy exchange? Is it fast & passionate, or slow and lingering … or somewhere in-between?
Read MoreI feel like there’s a lot of myths and stigma surrounding ‘period sex’ that I‘m ready to bust. Firstly, I’m sick and tired of seeing men’s faces screw up when the topic of periods and sex are brought up in conversation. Seriously, it’s time to open up men (and women) to the possibility that there’s SO much more to ‘period sex’ than just a traditional penetrative fu*k. And gentleman, seriously, you need to get over your period blood phobia and man up.
Read MoreLet’s be honest, what entails ‘sexiness’ in a man isn’t just good looks and charm … there’s a whole heap of other stuff that drives women crazy. Gentleman, if you’re serious about meeting the woman of your dreams, or at least sleeping with the woman of your dreams, then read on and take note.
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