During sex, the body's energy may become stagnant, heavy, or stuck. Biting, slapping and pinching can be used to stimulate energy in the nervous system and rouse a listless or sluggish body into more energetic ecstasy. Sometimes a little bit of pain, skilfully and lovingly administered, can greatly increase pleasure. Use this means freely, with real love and careful sensitivity. These techniques are simply aspects of creative sexual loving and should be used equally by men and women.
Read MoreI've been listening to a ton of music recently and it's been super powerful in that just by listening to slow sexual music I am tapping into my sex, desire and orgasm deeper than ever. So, with that in mind, I have put together a Slow Sex Playlist, specifically for the lovers out there who are looking to make love or fuck to new tunes.
Read MoreIt’s the age old question - ‘Should we have sex when we are bleeding?’. Well I say yes … if you want to that is. Truth is, like any other sexual activity, sex while menstruating is a personal preference. Some of us love it, some don’t. The bottom line is that we need to respect and love each other whether we do or don’t enjoy it.
Read MoreSo, are you bisexual? Or are you more heterosexual than bisexual? Or what about that time you ‘turned lesbian?’, is that phase over now?
On a weekly basis I’m asked different versions of the above questions about my sexuality. And rightly so, people are naturally curious about sexuality and love to use labels to define human beings, thus placing us in boxes so that we can better understand each other. But what if labels were taken out of the equation, and we began to identify with being purely sexual?
Read MoreThis is an invitation for all women, an invitation to begin seeing your breasts in a new light, an invitation to begin touching your breasts with love and embracing their beauty, just as they are. I know it’s not always that easy, to embrace and love a part of yourself that you’ve previously ignored, but I promise you that once you work through what it is that’s holding you back from embracing this part of your body, the rewards are endless and the self-love is unlimited.
Read MoreFor those of you who have never experienced eye-fucking with a stranger, it goes a little something like this: firstly, you and your eye-fucking partner instantly feel that ‘something’ that draws you to each other … it’s like a magnetic sexual cosmic pull that’s intense from the moment you meet. The sexual chemistry is unashamedly there in all it’s glory and the energy between you both is like a bomb exploding inside your mind and body. Oh, and I refer to the connection as ‘cosmic’, because often it’s not always just your sex centre speaking, it’s your heart and your consciousness saying a ‘holy f*ck yes, yes, yes’ to that person.
Read MoreFantasy Files is a joint collaboration between Sexologist Juliet Allen and artist Tina Maria Elena. The project combines sexual fantasy, writing and art. Seven fantasies will be revealed over seven days, all written and submitted by real-life women from around the globe. The Fantasy Files project aims to empower women and men to embrace their sexual fantasy and desire and enjoy their sexuality in all it's senses.
"I can feel you watching me from across the room and this turns me on. I lose myself in the music and connect in with my body, feeling into what it would be like to have you inside me, feeling the weight of your body on top of me, behind me, underneath me. Without warning you appear behind me, your presence alone makes me wet, my pussy is yearning for your touch. I turn around, our eyes connect and I can feel the energy in my body rise up through my sex centre, opening my heart up to your cock energy. No words are needed, we both know what is about to unfold. We dance. You begin kissing my neck, my dress slips down and you are kissing my breasts. I feel myself completely surrendering to your touch and nothing else matters in this moment. It’s just you and I now."
Read MoreMagical anal sex?! Is there even such a thing?! Yes, yes there is, and if you’re reading this, I’m suspecting you’re curious as to how to experience it. So, what are the basics of magical anal sex and why is it so damn magical? Here’s 5 practical tips for those who want to try it, or those who want it to be a super powerful and pleasurable sexual experience.
Read MoreFantasy Files is a joint collaboration between Sexologist Juliet Allen and artist Tina Maria Elena. The project combines sexual fantasy, writing and art. Seven fantasies will be revealed over seven days, all written and submitted by real-life women from around the globe. The Fantasy Files project aims to empower women and men to embrace their sexual fantasy and desire and enjoy their sexuality in all it's senses.
"Later, I'm in the bathroom washing my hands when she comes out of a stall. She comes next to me and smiles, no words said. Whether it's the wine or the fantasy I've always had being so close to being fulfilled, I reach around the soft of her neck, pull her in and kiss her, deeply. She responds with her body and instantly we are wrapped around each other, kissing, feeling, moving in the stall she'd just minutes ago come out of. It isn't rushed or eager as I expected this may be. Rather, she's loving, has a look of desire, and I see a lot of myself and my wants in her. I think back to my partner, and how we've always talked about this, and I'm insanely turned on."
Read MoreI’ve always been very vocal when making love and f*cking. No one taught me to be vocal, I just naturally allow sound to flow during sex, especially when I climax. When I was younger I thought every woman used sound (moaning, screaming, talking, whispering) to amplify her sexual experience … until I made love to a woman who was very quiet and controlled with her vocals … this experience gave me an insight into how unique our sexual experiences are, and so I wondered, 'is orgasm and sex more powerful if sound is used?'.
Read MoreFantasy Files is a joint collaboration between Sexologist Juliet Allen and artist Tina Maria Elena. The project combines sexual fantasy, writing and art. Seven fantasies will be revealed over seven days, all written and submitted by real-life women from around the globe. The Fantasy Files project aims to empower women and men to embrace their sexual fantasy and desire and enjoy their sexuality in all it's senses.
"I move slowly around her, caressing her stomach, breasts, neck and arms with the tip of my crop. She moans softly but remains still with anticipation. My heels click on the floorboards as I take my place between her thighs. I pick up the small vile of hot, sweet, scented oil. I trickle the oil down the inside of her thighs. The heat bites her skin and she whimpers, but within seconds my hands are on her, soothing her, my hands running down her inner thighs. She quivers and sighs, but her legs held firmly in place cannot move. I massage the oil into the crevice of her thighs, down over her buttocks and back up across her smooth mound, brushing my fingers across her exposed clitoris. "
Read MoreIt’s the silent epidemic that most of will suffer from at some stage in our lives; loss of our mojo (aka sex drive). It’s a killer, especially when we are head over heels in love with our partner, and yet something in our mind and body clicks, and all-of-a-sudden we are literally sexless.
So, how do we keep our mojo alive on a daily basis? Well to be honest I think it’s completely normal and natural not to want sex every day, but I also think it’s not too big an ask to want to at least feel sexual daily (even if we don’t engage in the actual physical sex).
Read MoreIf you’re new to the world of crystals, we’re here to give you some insight, and help guide you on picking the right stone for you.
Read MoreHint: it starts outside the bedroom.
Read MoreSlow down and sink into your body.
Read MoreHarness your sexual energy to create abundance.
Read MoreRecently I was reminded that when a man fucks a woman, he enters her not just with his cock, but with his entire consciousness. Energetically we receive every man we fuck into every cell in our body … we receive their vibration into our heart and consciousness, and take on whatever is going on for that man in that moment in his life. Urggggggggg … reality check!
Read MoreFantasy Files is a joint collaboration between Sexologist Juliet Allen and artist Tina Maria Elena. The project combines sexual fantasy, writing and art. Seven fantasies will be revealed over seven days, all written and submitted by real-life women from around the globe. The Fantasy Files project aims to empower women and men to embrace their sexual fantasy and desire and enjoy their sexuality in all it's senses.
"While driving to his house I can feel the wet ache between my thighs. I arrive, he greets me at the door, holds my face in his hands and kisses me deeply, his tongue is forceful and strong. He tastes sweet. I walk inside, feeling his eyes on me from behind … I’m turned on knowing he is watching my ass move under my dress … my nipples are hard … my breath sharpens … I want him to take me here and now. Not one word is spoken. He lifts me up onto the kitchen bench and opens my legs. His hands are strong and forceful, a strength that makes me wet. The way he handles me shows me he’s confident, he’s done this before … his strength gives me permission to surrender, knowing he’s got me I completely let go."
Read MoreWe’re either doing it, or not doing it. Talking about it, or not talking about it. Thinking about it, or not thinking about it. It’s a topic of discussion amongst the young and old and yet, more often than not, a lot of us struggle with actually having enough energy throughout the day to enjoy intimacy & sex with our partners or, dare I say, with ourselves. There are many factors that need to be considered when thinking about our drive for sex, but for now let’s look at how adding superfoods into your diet can up your libido and zest for life.
Read MoreFantasy Files is a joint collaboration between Sexologist Juliet Allen and artist Tina Maria Elena. The project combines sexual fantasy, writing and art. Seven fantasies will be revealed over seven days, all written and submitted by real-life women from around the globe. The Fantasy Files project aims to empower women and men to embrace their sexual fantasy and desire and enjoy their sexuality in all it's senses.
"He lays me down on the massage table, the incense burning under me, candles and music filling the room. I can see us both so clearly in the mirror that covers the wall beside me. He walks towards me, and everything goes dim as I feel the red silk sash tighten over my eyes. I see nothing, but my body is alive. I lay completely still trying not to squirm as he massages warm coconut oil into my legs, sliding his hands so slowly up between my thighs, and stopping. My hearts rate increases. Breathing more. Feeling more. Needing more. He takes his time, indulging in my body, moving his fingers lightly over all of me. He moves to my back, my arms, and up my neck."
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