It’s no lie that I’ve recently done a fair bit of ‘market research’ on Tinder and let’s just say, it’s a hell of a jungle out there. Gentleman, listen up, if you’re serious about Tinder, and you genuinely want to match up with a sex goddess, then I suggest most of you consider a major overhaul of your profiles … immediately.
Read MoreMutual masturbation is when two (or more) people masturbate in each other’s presence. Perhaps you are both positioned on opposite sides of the room, or you’re alongside each other kissing, or you’re on opposite sides of the world, watching and listening via a screen. It doesn’t matter how you choose to do it, what matters is that you experience and embrace mutual masturbation as a regular practice with your lover/s.
Read MoreToday I want to de-bunk a few common myths about Tantra and assure you that Tantra isn’t just for hippies, in fact Tantra is for everyone and is a simple way to take your sex life to a whole new level.
Read MoreBeing a Sexually Empowered Human means fully embracing your sexuality, your sex centre and your desire for life-changing sex. It means fully owning your deep yearning for connection, intimacy and wild fucking. You don’t feel the need to ‘dress’ sexy, because your sexiness isn’t reliant on what you wear, or what clothing size you are … you are sexy from the moment you wake up in your most raw and natural essence and way of being and moving in your body and spirit.
Read MoreAre you a lady in waiting attracting the prince whose looking good and going nowhere? Or are you a Queen ready for a King?
The lady in waiting can have a little bit of power by sleeping with a man and enchanting him with her sexuality. She can also have a little bit of power by meeting a man's desires, expectations and ideas of how his ideal woman should behave.
But she doesn't have legitimate power, because she is giving 80 per cent and he is only giving 20 per cent.
Read MoreKissing isn’t always about smacking your lips together and sharing saliva … no, there is so much more to kissing than that. So, what is it that makes for an exquisite kiss between two lovers? Is it the actual technique? Is it the energy exchange? Is it fast & passionate, or slow and lingering … or somewhere in-between?
Read MoreI feel like there’s a lot of myths and stigma surrounding ‘period sex’ that I‘m ready to bust. Firstly, I’m sick and tired of seeing men’s faces screw up when the topic of periods and sex are brought up in conversation. Seriously, it’s time to open up men (and women) to the possibility that there’s SO much more to ‘period sex’ than just a traditional penetrative fu*k. And gentleman, seriously, you need to get over your period blood phobia and man up.
Read MoreLet’s be honest, what entails ‘sexiness’ in a man isn’t just good looks and charm … there’s a whole heap of other stuff that drives women crazy. Gentleman, if you’re serious about meeting the woman of your dreams, or at least sleeping with the woman of your dreams, then read on and take note.
Read MoreLet’s be honest, some women just do not enjoy giving blow jobs, full stop. And you know what, that’s ok, because worshipping co*k isn’t every woman’s cup of tea, so to speak. But then there’s the women who think they don’t enjoy it, but actually just don’t really know what to do … and so they’re not feeling confident with their blow job skills. Dear women who don’t love giving blow jobs, this article is for you.
Read MoreAs a Sexologist, sex-enthusiast and mother, I offer you the following advice: talk to your kids about sex, masturbation, intimacy & sexual energy from a very young age. And another piece of advice … if you’re reading this and cringing, I suggest you get to a a good sex therapist/coach and dive deep into sorting out the ‘stuff’ that holds you back from having these conversations … because trust me, if you’re not comfortable talking about sex, then your kids won’t be either … and so the cycle will continue through the generations.
Read MoreEver wondered what it would be like to have a threesome? If you’re reading this, it’s likely that you’re curious. Perhaps you have no clue where to find the ideal person to experience it with? Or maybe you already have someone lined up for a threesome with your partner, but you’re not sure how to make it a ‘fool proof’ experience?
As a sex and relationship coach I spend a lot of time with my clients discussing the ‘how-to’s’ of threesomes … the who, what, where, when and why’s. You see, threesome’s sound fun (and they definitely can be VERY fun), but a lot of couples have fears about stuff going wrong. So, I’ve come up with six top tips that are guaranteed to help you have the best experience possible
Read MoreA rose quartz crystal dildo in my pussy, WTF? Yep, that’s what I thought when I first heard of crystal dildos, so I get it if you’re thinking this is yet another airy fairy hippy gimmick. Luckily, it’s not. In fact ever since using my first rose quartz Chakrubs dildo a few months ago, I’ve never looked back. So, what’s the big deal? Why am I pushing crystal dildos all-of-a-sudden? Well, let me enlighten you with a few simple facts about sex toys and vaginas.
Read MoreEvery now and then, when a relationship comes to an end, you might find yourself left devastated, grieving and needing to readjust things in your life. When this happens, it can be hard to see the light at the end of the breakup tunnel.
Here are my top 7 tips for surviving a breakup: a great place to start if you're looking to process and re-design!
Read MoreWithout a doubt all women seek to feel more sexually empowered at different stages in their lives. For some of us, sexual confidence comes naturally, for others, it doesn’t flow as easily. Either way is perfectly normal and there’s definitely no ‘rights and wrongs’ when it comes to sexuality and sexual confidence. The good news is that if you’re feeling a little disempowered, sexual empowerment can be learnt.
Read MoreLet’s face it, women are not always easy to pleasure, nor are they easy to please. I know this because I am a woman, plus I’ve experienced sex with a number of women and wow, we certainly are all very unique in how we experience pleasure. If you’re reading this and relate, I’m here to give you a couple of simple tips and tricks that will guarantee increased pleasure that your woman experiences when she is with you next.
Read MoreOver the past few months essential oils have become a huge part of my everyday life, including my sex life. I use the oils in a hot bath, in a diffuser in my bedroom, on my skin as perfume, and in coconut oil as a massage oil and daily moisturiser. I can honestly say the oils have taken my sensual and sexual life to a whole new level of ecstasy!
Read MoreEssential oils really are a huge part of my life and my sanity. I use them every single day in all sorts of ways, including to boost my sensuality and sex drive. What I love most about essential oils is that they are 100% natural and most of them are safe to use both externally, and internally. Plus they smell so damn good that they make my entire body and house smell super sensual and delicious.
Read MoreYesterday was Mother’s day and it prompted me to think about life as a parent and the challenges we face juggling parenthood, work life, relationship life, and the all-important sex life. “What sex life?!”, I hear some of you sigh. Yeah well, I totally get it … parenting is FULL ON, kids can be demanding, and it’s super common for our sex lives to suffer as a result.
Read MoreIt seems there are a lot of myths surrounding the topic of anal sex; it’s painful, men want it more than us women, women who love it are dirty. The list goes on and on, which leads to a misconception that the only people who love it are men having sex with men, and this couldn’t be further from the truth.
Anal sex is still somewhat of a taboo topic in mainstream conversation and, as far as I’m concerned, it’s not talked about enough. Which brings me to 5 anal sex myths (de-bunked):
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